Hey guys I just got back to HCMC after the holiday. About the May 10 event, I'm still in. Just curious if we can reschedule it to May 9 afternoon cuz then I'll just go to the coffee shop after work (I work on Saturday mornings too). If it has to be May 10, it'll still be fine. No big deal
Nah. When a girl kiss a boy, she must, at least, like him enough. That doesn't mean she loves him or she thinks anything serious about the kiss.
Kissing is not good :( I was nearly kissed by a boy in the lips but I avoided quickly enough the kiss landed on my cheek, sighhhh
Btw I have another question for you guys. If I heard someone telling a terrible secret about a girl I like, should I ask her about it? I mean assuming a certain level of trust and openness between the girl and I.
If someone told you a secret then keep it a secret and choose what you believe. Things like humour or side stories should be used for reference only.
Oh well maybe wrong use of word. Not a "secret" exactly, more like an anecdote involving the girl which does put a bad light on her. Should I just keep it for myself? Is talking to her a bad move?
Depends on who you are and who she is I guess? I find average girls tend to easily get offended by anything that has a more than 0.00001% chance of turning her into a slightly less perfect image in any possible view point in any possible circumstance. But then again when it comes to someone really, really close you can casually tell her she's a horny bitch and she's be, like, "Yes! Punish me more!". Don't judge.
Well we did have some intimate moments and generally really open about those things. So you could say we are close enough.
Just don't ask. Unless, she's your wife. And even for wives, watch her mood. However, if the truth is so damn important to you, shot away. But remember: be clear, be short, be transparent in your motive and straight to the point. The more you go around the subject, the more irritated she will get. In other words, talk straight to her face, right into the middle of the point and make her clearly understand that it's important matter to you.
But it's not wrong of me to ask about it, is it? I mean when I told her and she confronted the guy who told the story. Did I just break some kind of brocode for talking about it?
1. The guy who told you didn't tell you to keep the secret: this is a problem of bro vs ho. Pick your favorite. 2. The guy who told you also told you to keep the secret: this is a problem of loyalty vs curiosity. Pick your poison.
If you feel the story makes you question the girl's image. Ask. If she goes psycho you should feel lucky you haven't married her yet. Break up, quickly. Anyway what I mean is.. better learn the hard truth than living in cynical world. Plus if you guys both get over that it's one step closer. I always tell my boyfriend I can't just tell him my dark secrets, but if he asks, I won't hide anything.
She went psycho on the other guy for bullshiting about her, so I'm kind of safe, but she blamed me for letting him talk about it... But anw I agree with your mentality, don't have to share everything but be totally honest when asked. I think it's great.
